A controversial relationship perspective argues that confidence, directness, and immediate value often outshine romance and good intentions—at least in the early stages of attraction.
These are two different types of men in the field of play. One is the poetic gentleman and the other, is a sharp sh00t€r who aims and fir€$.
But guess who this lady will prefer! She will accept the second guy; she may just be slightly 0ff€nd€d by his approach but he is speaking her language. One, two steps and they are down to business.
While the poetic, Shakespearean gentleman will be handed the list of all her standards and rules. He will be expected to jump through hoops inorder to get her.
Why? She is young, she just wants to have some fun not speak English. The second guy already made it clear that he has the money but Romeo is busy speaking English.
She will be ready for Shakespeare in the next 10 years when she is jaded and ready to retire.
But for now, the second guy is her spec.
While the first one is acting intentional, trying to meet her requirements, the second guy will be $m@$hing for free.
The second guy is going to be her bestie while the first one will be the main guy.
You can be anything in life, but don't be that first man!
