A debate on relationships sparks conversation about how men are often judged regardless of their choices—celebrated for self-control, yet sometimes questioned when that same restraint challenges expectations.
When it comes to men dealing with vvomen, the expectations from vvomen are quite h@r$h and a man will be judged no matter what.
A vvoman made a video saying that if she is dating a guy, they'd abstain from secs till they're married but she will still take baths together with the man and the man should be able to hold himself......
Someone asked her, wouldn't that mean tempting the man because a man's biological reaction when he sees his vvoman's n@ked body, is to touch her.
She replied that that any man who is able to control himself is more attractive to her.
I get it actually but my confusion is this; what about when they're finally married and he doesn't get @r0u$€d by her n@k€d body, won't she assume that something is vvr0ng with the man?
"Maybe he is Agege"
"Could it be that she is no longer attractive or she has gained weight?"
"Could it be there's another vvoman that he is seeing?"
.......and that's the i$$u€. The same man whose secsual discipline is celebrated will be the same man whose secsuality will be questioned.
A lot of the time, vvomen will make flirtatious attempts at a man and if they fail, they conclude that he is agege.
......Not that he may be married or unavailable for them but he must be Agege for resisting them.
That's h@r$h, it's like at this point, a man must be judged no matter.
A man going through life might not have hunger for woman at the moment or you’re overestimating yourself, just like the lady with the bouncer.
Umu Anya mmiri always attack themselves unknowingly. Confussionists!!!
