She argues that marriage often places an unfair burden on women, who are expected to work, cook, raise children and manage the home, while receiving little in return. She even says she doesn’t want her daughter to get married.
"If marriage favours women, men will not do it. I’ve spent over 30 years on this earth, and I’ve been thinking about it and up till now, I don’t know a certain gain of marriage for women.
A woman does not gain a single thing from being married. Marriage takes everything. Even your life.
As a matter of fact, I find it hard to maybe believe that there are women in 2026 who still want to get married. I have a daughter. She does not know it yet, but she’s not going to get married.
I’m not saying this based off my own experience. I’m somebody who people talk to. I’m like an unpaid therapist. There is no week that passes by that I don’t get DMs of women.
Women have it harder in marriage. It takes everything. Your life.
Should we talk about a man who just comes and carries me and puts me in the house as an unpaid help? I will cook your food. I birth your children. I keep your home. I train your children. And you’re not paying me.
If na nanny I go do, say person employ me to take care of the kids, I know how much I’m going to be earning, but you’re not paying me. And at the end of the day, I’m also bringing my own finances.
Because, of course, I have to work. If I’m not working, you will not marry me. Men are gold d!gg£rs..."
