Odumeje asked a vvoman who attended his church why she f0ūght her husband in front of his m0ther and she replied; it's because he said that their çhīldrēñ will dī€.
Odumeje told her that there's no way a man will say that unless his vvife brought him nothing but p@in, turmoil, ch@0$ and di$@$t€r.
He further said that when a man haytes his vvoman, he haytes her seed which is why men will tell their vvives to go with the çhīldrēñ.
"Whatever a man brings into his life is to make him happy, from the TV, video games, cosy environment to his cars and properties.......and when he finally decides to bring in a vvoman, it's still with the same intention.
But what most men realised was that their lives turned upside down the moment they married. Defeating the entire purpose."
Believe it or not, a lot of vvomen are just walking pr0bl€m$, peace eludes men who end up with them. You wonder why some men live fewer years after marriage than they did while $ingle. A man marries at 40 and passes at 51.
You wonder why some men look 20 years o0der once they bring in a vvoman.
A vvoman has more emotional reserve and power bank than men. A vvoman can still outlive a man no matter the challenges and ch@0$ she faces in her marriage. She has so many outlets to ease her pain.
Have you ever felt better after sharing a problem with someone or venting? You didn't feel better because they offered a solution necessarily, but because you had an outlet to release the emotions.
That's how vvomen cope, once she cries, talks to her friends, family members or post it on social media, have some of her friends hype her up that the man was uz€l€$$, she feels better.
Unlike men who bottle up their emotions because "men don't cry," all that suppressed pains end up as sicknesses in their bodies and leads to early d€@+h
As a man, your life is already hard by default, don't tolerate emotional abuuuze in the name of maturity, you can't win a vvoman in her own game.
Just like a vvoman can't stand a man's physical strength for too long, a man cannot survive a vvoman's emotional and verbal abuse either.
Take care of yourselves, any vvoman who can't offer you peace, should not take the one you already have.
Lastly, nobody (man or vvoman) should stay where they are abuuuzed whether physical, mentally, emotionally, the fact that you can cope doesn't mean you should. Go where you're loved.
