They got married when Darry was 24 and the wife was 32, so there has always been this 9-year-old gap between them.
Even with this, they are living fine, and they just celebrated their 18th year wedding anniversary.
Not only that she was older, Deola was richer and more successful than her husband when they met, but it does not matter. She was running a successful interior decoration company at the time they met.
I like the fact that she leveraged her experience and vast contacts to give the husband a proper sense of direction in his music career.
The couple both run Livespot, one of the biggest live event and production companies in the country.
I shared this to buttress what I have always believed:
There is no hard and fast rule when it comes to marriage.
There is no rule or manual to follow.
The wife can be older than the man, and it is ok.
What matters is the love they share and the value that holds them together.
Since this is the case, continue to be your authentic self and follow your heart.
Believe me. the world will adjust.
Moral Lesson: *Most men married to ladies older than them live more happy and successful in their marriage than the men married to girls they gave 10 years gap.*
*Getting married to kids in this new generation is a trouble.*
Make a research.
Know this and know peace.
