A woman has condemned men who allegedly go as far as paying a lady’s bride price, only to later demand a refund after getting intimate with her. She says delaying a relationship decision doesn’t mean a woman is playing hard to get—it may simply mean she is trying to be sure she’s making the right choice.
"Why will you go as far as going to a girl’s village to pay her bride price, and after sl&&ping with her, doing everything that you want to do with her, immediately you travel back, you send a message across that they should go and take the dowry back? You do not mean to get married to her.
And the girl in question will be reaching out to you, “What is happening? The only thing that you open your mouth to say is, “Oh, shebi you were playing hard to get. I had to go that far to get you and sl&&p with you.”
Do you see that you’re a w!ck£d person? Why would you even do that? If they do something like that to your sister, how would you feel?
That a girl is delaying to say yes to you, that a girl is delaying to give you her body, does not mean she’s playing hard to get.
She’s only trying to confirm that she’s not making a mistake. She’s only trying to confirm that, “Oh God, is this the right person for me?”
I heard this gist and it broke my heart, because the girl in question is broken. Please, abroad men, I feel like this is just too common with you people.
I beg you in the name of God, if you know that a girl is delaying to say yes and it is not okay with you, please move on and look for the next one that will say yes to you immediately.
The next one that, immediately you come back, she will come to you, both of you will enjoy yourselves, and then you go. Don’t come and m£ss any girl’s life up. W!ckedn£ss dey oo..."
