A relationship expert advises married men to involve their wives in supporting their parents and siblings, saying this could help build trust, love and acceptance between the wife and her in-laws.
“As a married man, stop sending money to your mother, father and siblings. If you want your family members to start loving and respecting your wife, start involving your wife in your relationship with your family members.
For example, your mother calls you and says she needs money for one thing or the other, which is normal. Don’t send the money directly to your mother. Send the money to your wife.
Let your wife be the one to transfer the money to your family members. Let her name reflect on the credit alert they will receive.
Start involving your wife in your relationship with family members. The reason why your family are not loving your wife is because you are keeping your wife away from them. You’re making her a stranger.
Because most families have this mentality that once their son is wealthy and decides to marry from a p00r background, they always feel the woman is there to corner everything. She’s there to squander everything. She’s there for herself.
But once you start applying this method, start sending money through your wife, they will start developing this mindset that this woman is here for us all. This woman actually cares...”
