A 41-year-old woman opens up about prioritizing money over genuine relationships in her younger years, urging young women not to delay marriage while searching for the “perfect” partner.
"If anybody had given me this advice I'm sharing with you, I wouldn't have been where I am now, single at 41. At my 20s, I selected a man. I selected a lot.
I said to myself, in fact, I said to my friends that I can't settle for less, that I know my rights, I know my worth. I told them that I need a rich man, I need a wealthy man. That I need a man that is going to spoil me, pamper me and all that. It doesn't mean that I wasn't seeing good men.
I was. But obviously I was looking at money. I was after wealth. But look at me now. 41, still single and searching. At my age, I should be having at least 15 years old kids right now.
But look at me, say single and searching, searching. 20 years girls are searching. Me too, I am searching. I feel so ashamed of myself. This is the truth.
A lot of girls out there my age will not tell you because of course they regret it behind closed doors. But I don't feel cool keeping this to myself.
Let me save some girls out there. Because if anybody had told me this earlier, I wouldn't be where I am today. So do wait for a man listening to me. Do not wait to share this video. It could really save your sisters out there.
It could save your friends, your female friends out there. And if you're a girl listening to me, try not to settle down in your late 20s to 25s. Once you get to 30, it's really, really difficult for a man to come by....."
– A 41-year-old woman has stirred reactions online after sharing her regrets about relationship choices she made in her 20s.
