By Nwankwo Paul
ThrowbackTimes
We can not deny the fact that poor poor parental upbringing in our homes is the primary cause.
Family is the first environment and equally the first immediate tutor of a Child. But, unfortunately, families have failed to take care of their responsibilities.
With the trend of slay queens and pepper Dem gang babes, young men who understand the ethics of hard work cannot go and pay for an Ill trained girl who cannot face the realities of being a mother or his wife.
Most times girls don't see from this point of view but seriously girls need to understand the meaning of humility and current reality. Life becomes tougher when u lie to yourself. Take it or leave it, you in Africa particularly Nigeria will never be Beyonce nor Kim Kardashian.
We are Africans and we have common rational values like being sane at least to make people accept us so we have a sense of belonging.
Pretending to be Kim Kardashian or Beyonce will on no account bring a genuine hubby who truly appreciates you. This is because the challenges of a developing nation like Nigeria will soon overwhelm the Nigeria Beyonce, be smart, go here.
Learn to have respect for the people that love you, care for and cater to you, marriage is not an escape route of life. No one is ready to shoulder responsibility all their life, they'll soon get tired, be a helper, and not another load on load.
